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5 Things You Must Do or Not Do on The First Night of Sex

You have gone on several dates with your man and you have kept it PG-13 up until now, but tonight is the big night. The following is a list of the top 5 things you must do (or not do) to ensure your man keeps coming back for more and the relationship continues:

1. Perform Well, But Keep It Freaky and Kink Free

Men like aggressive sexual women, but they need to grow into it during the course of the relationship. Swinging from the chandeliers and over-the-top dirty talk should be avoided, at least for now. Telling him how good it feels is ok, but dirty talk should be avoided. Wait to break out the toys and avoid the stinky pinky. Good girls just don’t do that on the first night. If you do anything too risque, he will enjoy himself for sure, but he will also assume that this is your modus operandi and ditch you in due course.

2. Never Laugh At His Manhood

Men are most insecure about two things: thinning hair and the size of their johnson. The truth is most men are nervous the first time they are about to get naked because despite how large they may be, they always assume they never measure up. Perhaps you will get lucky and your man is packing heat, but statistics suggest that the average member is slightly north of 5 inches. If you have been sexually inactive for several months and have satisfied yourself with porn, keep in mind that male porn stars average 8-9 inches and can occasionally come in at 11 or 12 inches. You most likely will need to adjust your expectations to the real world. Whatever size pistol he reveals, keep your comments positive. If ever there was a time to lie or hyperbolize, now is it. Never call it cute and who knows, some men are growers, not showers, so your best bet is to wrap your lips around his stick and find out.

3. Never Stink (from any orifice):

There is no bigger turn off than a smelly girl and I am not just talking about your breath. It certainly goes without saying that your pre-sex meal not contain any items that cause bad breath. Tonight is not the night to experiment either, new foods can turn your stomach into a war zone. A girl with gas on the first night will, at best, be a one-night stand. Wait 6 months into the relationship before you indulge in garlic and onion laced Mexican or heavily-spiced Indian cuisine. Most importantly, make sure your nether region is as groomed and odorless as it can possibly be. You have no idea if your man likes to perform oral sex, and if you are lucky enough to have found one, don’t disappoint him with a hairy smelly mess. That isn’t nice and it certainly won’t incentivize him to repeat the act should the relationship continue. Do not go completely bald either (some men are not into that), a strip or neatly groomed pubic patch is recommended.

4. Condom Policy

Always carry no less than 4 condoms with you (and it never hurts to have more, in case he is a stallion). Perhaps the “condom policy” should have been listed first, but what a bummer way to start an article. Most heterosexual men are ill-prepared for most things, including sex. It is not uncommon for men to get a bit inebriated prior to a sexual encounter and good judgment seems to diminish with each drink. Even good intelligent men will sometimes forego a condom when under the influence. Make sure you are never on the receiving end of this mistake. So he doesn’t think you are a “dirty slut” when you pull out a condom, let him know throughout the night (before you actually pull it out) that you have been thinking about this night for quite some time and have prepared for everything.

5. Location, Location, Location

If you do not do proper due diligence on your man’s housing situation, you can find yourself in a very embarrassing situation the morning after. Believe it or not, some men even at the ripe old age of 30 have mommies that come by the house uninvited (and often on weekends when you are likely to be having your romantic evening). Even if his mother knows about you, you don’t want to be spotted after a night of doing the dirty. After all, this woman may turn out to be your mother-in-law. Other potential pitfalls include roommates you may not be aware of who may walk into your man’s bedroom without knocking unaware of your presence. Perhaps your pad makes the most sense, but, if not, do your homework on his living situation.

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How to Be Irresistible To Your Husband

When you have just been married, your husband will be irresistible and treat you with great love and tenderness. Unfortunately, this kind of treatment does not usually last as long as you would like. After some time, you may wish that your husband kept handling you in the same way. It can hurt you greatly when you discover that he is not the same affectionate husband he used to be. To make matters worse, you may assume that you will be able to recapture his interest by making simple adjustments such as changing the way you dress or even lose a few pounds. Unfortunately, this does not usually work.

How to attract husband – more than physical attraction

Although there are a number of things you need to do in order to attract your husband’s interest in you, they hardly have anything to do with your physical appearance.

This does not mean that physical attraction will no longer be important after you have stayed together for a while. However, there are many other important factors beside this. When you want to attract your husband’s interest in you, you should seriously consider your actions more than your appearance.

Nevertheless, you should not neglect your appearance. When you begin to leave your hair unkempt or you don’t seem to think much of what you wear, your husband will start wondering what is going on with you. He may even interpret it that you are not interested in him any more. Alternatively, he may see it as a way in which you do not value yourself, which will change his own perception of you.

How to attract husband – avoid getting irritable

One of the things that can make your husband lose interest in you is when he keeps finding you in a foul mood. If there are things that give you stress, you should find a way of solving them, as you may unconsciously take them out on your husband.

How to attract husband – develop your personality

If you lack a strong personality, your husband’s interest will begin to wane. You need to have a strong personality and have a more positive attitude. It is nearly impossible to attract someone else when you have a negative attitude.

You should be happy first of all in order to renew your husband’s interest in you. These are just some of the things you can do in order to bring back the sparkle in your marriage. It does not really matter whether your husband has lost so much interest that he is already contemplating a divorce.

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Sizzling Tips To Win Your Ex Boyfriend Back After You Have Given Up Hope – Regain His Love Fast!

When your ex boyfriend ignores you and rejects every attempt you make to talk to him and get him back, you might be ready to give up hope. But you might be closer to getting your ex back than you think. Men have a lot of ego and pride which makes it hard for them to admit they made a mistake. To regain his love fast, there are only a few things you have to do.

First of all you need to give him time alone to see how good he had it with you. He has to come to realize that you were the best thing to ever happen to him. When your ex boyfriend understands how empty his life would be without you, he will begin to regret the breakup. But you have to allow him the time to make these decisions for himself.

Men do not like to be pushed, and when they feel they are being forced to do something, they can become very stubborn. This is why, when you are seeking advice to get your ex boyfriend back, you will see the no contact rule and male psychology mentioned frequently. Using the no contact rule and giving him time to think will make the male psychology work.

By going on with your life and making your ex boyfriend think you have given up hope of getting him back, you will make him begin to feel he is losing you. This is using male psychology, to make him start feeling he has to get back what he is losing. Your ex will become aware of how much he still loves you and he will be afraid of you finding another guy.

It is this fear of losing you to someone else that will spark his desire to get you back. The more he feels you are slipping away from him, the more desperate he will become. You can speed up this process by going out and having a good time. Hearing of you making yourself available again, can reverse the feeling of losing hope and your ex boyfriend will be wondering if you are over him.

Another sizzling tip is to remind him of what he is losing. You know your ex boyfriend’s habit and where he hangs out. Get dressed in your most desirable way, fix your hair in his favorite style and dab on the scent he always commented on. When you are ready, go out and run into your ex boyfriend ‘accidentally’.

Act surprised to see him and do some innocent chit chat. Do not mention the breakup or anything about your relationship. Act as if you are in a hurry and after a couple of minutes tell him it was good to see him again. Then give him a big smile and a hug and be on your way. By doing this, you will be planting the image of the happy independent girl he fell in love with in his mind again and he will realize how much he misses you.

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How to Know if a Guy Likes You – 6 Quick Tips

So, you wanna know if a guy likes you? You are at the right place. Let me tell you one thing straight out – you can never know for sure. How to tell if a guy likes you is a tough question. But don’t worry – I will get you closer to knowing. Here we go.

Asking about boyfriend – Did he ever ask you if you have a boyfriend? If he is interested in your love life, then he is interested in you. You know what would make it even more obvious? If he asked you if a particular guy is your boyfriend (“Was that your boyfriend?” :))

Initiating contact – When a guy likes you, he will kind of subconsciously want to get closer to you, and establish at least some kind of physical contact. I’m thinking about playful punching, pecking, hugging… Normally he would be standing closer to you when talking, than when he is talking to other girls. If he is more physical with you than with any other girl, that’s a clear sign that he likes you.

Offering help – Has he ever offered you help with anything you needed? This can be a pretty clear giveaway, at the first possibility of him helping in any sort of way he will jump in and offer you help

Laughing at jokes – Come on, don’t you remember? You are just like that when YOU like a guy, you laugh at almost everything he says… Well if he is laughing, then guess what – he likes you.

Eye contact – Now, there are different types of guys, but if he is not shy, he will quite often initiate eye contact with you – look at you directly in the eyes. If you caught him looking at you and smiling across the room or in the hallway, when you are too far away to talk – he is into you my lady 🙂 .

Let me stop there, I hope you are one step closer to answering the question this blog is all about… And that is: How to Tell if a Guy likes you. There is more to come, so be sure to come back, and also check the other posts out as well.

Till next time,

Mike

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Party Ideas for Your Bachelorette

Bachelorette parties can be very fun and a party to remember if you have a great planner. There are many games and things you can do for this occasion, but the key is that it needs to be fun for the bride and the others. So, deciding which game to play is an important choice to make and you need to know them very well. Hiring strippers is something people usually do but playing games with them is something that’s added to the fun.

It would be best if you have someone to consult with that is close to the bride and also has experience in organizing these events. If you want to make it perfect it can be very expensive to throw a party like this. It isn’t something you should save a lot of money on because it is something you will remember your whole life so make it count. It doesn’t matter if it is Majesty Male Strippers or you want female strippers, the prices are usually the same based on packages you want.

Male Strippers

The first thing on the list is to find male strippers. If you plan to go to the club, you won’t need to organize anything they are prepared for these occasions. The problem is that the price is going to be high. If you plan to call them to come to a hotel, you need to find someone that is reputable. It is crucial that they know how to behave which also goes for the woman in the room. Strippers have their own rules that you need to follow if you want them to stay until the end.

If you are at the club, the lap dances and additional services will be charged besides hiring them. Always consider hiring a few of them if you have a larger group so everyone can have fun. The price can be around $150 per hour, it depends on how well-known they are. Most of them will have the same skills but they also have a reputation that is included in the price. Click here to read more.

Shot Roulette

Shot Roulette is a very fun game if you want to get drunk fast. The core purpose of the game is to drink and mix drinks so be careful what you pour in the glass. The Roulette is smaller than the original one and the glasses come with the game and each one of them has two numbers on it.

Pick a couple of drinks and the players should choose which number they want to be. If the ball lands on their number, they need to drink the glass. So basically, every turn someone drinks. The game can easily be ordered online from websites like Amazon or Aliexpress. It is just a small way you can prepare for an awesome party later.

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Drunken Jenga

All of these games could be played at the beginning of the night so you can warm-up for the club and the strippers. Jenga is one of the most popular games in the world and people found a way to involve alcohol in it. There can be two to four players in a group. If you have a lot of people then there can be a couple of games going on at the same time.

The rules are very simple and you start with setting the Jenga tower as you would normally do. So, to include alcohol in it, people use something called the trash can punch. It is a large glass where people will place their favorite drink in. The combinations may be very interesting and you might discover a new cocktail. The loser would have to drink the whole glass.

The Stylish Bride

If you want to make the bride loosen up a little, you can play a short but funny game called the stylish bride. It is very simple and it is more fun for the guests because the bride will be a blindfolded model that will wear the clothes guests give to her. They will bring a random part of clothing and the bride need to figure out what it is and wear it. It can be a very silly combination that will make everyone laugh and bring some positive energy for the night.

Guess Who?

The party is meant for the bride and it should be something that she remembers her whole life. It usually starts in the morning and people party the whole day and night. In the morning, the best friends of the bride should come over and start the day with some breakfast and fun games to spend time. It is hard to drink the whole day, so the majority of people will play games that don’t involve alcohol.

There will always be friends that drink but the club will wait for them. Guess who is a fun game to get to know the groom and a little more about their relationship. Guests will write questions related to the bride about the groom or some private interesting questions that may be funny to hear the answer. Then people will vote who relates the question more, the groom or the bride.

Never Have I Ever

Never have I Ever is a drinking game where you can learn a lot about the person and it is meant for a larger group so if you have a lot of guests, it can be really fun. Everyone starts with picking the drink for themselves which they will drink depending on the question and their experience. The game starts with a person of choice who says “Never Have I Ever” and says anything she hasn’t done.

Everyone who did what this person didn’t will have to drink. It is better to take a sip then drink the whole glass because the questions come fast and the drinking comes faster. Make sure that the questions are interesting in a way you can find something you didn’t know about the people that are surrounding you. It’s great that you don’t need any props to play it and it can get really exciting after some delicate questions.

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How to Make a Man Feel Loved By You! Relationship Tips For Women

Every woman knows that all relationships are about give and take. Unfortunately, we often feel that we are the ones who must do all the giving in our relationships while the man we’re with does the taking. The fact that men and women handle themselves differently when they’re involved with someone is crucial to remember if you want your own relationship to flourish. Understanding how to make a man feel loved can be the key to getting the connection you want with your guy. If he feels that you adore and cherish him more than anyone in the world, he’s more likely to feel the same way about you. Making a man feel this isn’t nearly as challenging as you may think it is.

Understanding how to make a man feel loved begins with recognizing the power of his ego. We all have an ego regardless of our gender. However, for most men their ego is directly connected to their performance in their relationship. He wants to be a great partner to you and if he knows that he is, he’ll continue to try his best to please you by being honourable, loyal and devoted to you. In order to make him feel this way you have to tell him, frequently, how fortunate you feel to be his partner. Make it clear to your guy that there isn’t another man on earth who could take his place in your life. If he feels that you’re genuinely grateful to have him he’ll be more inclined to feel emotionally connected to you.

You can also make a man feel loved by thanking him more for all the small things he does for you. Over time we tend to start taking our partner for granted and unless we make an effort to change that, they’re going to start feeling the effects of it. If your guy is always taking your car to fill it up for gas, tell him how much that means to you. If he cooks you dinner sometimes let him know that it helps you so much when he does it and it makes you feel special. If his efforts are being appreciated it helps him feel closer to you because he knows you value what he’s doing for you.

It’s also vitally important that you include him in all aspects of your life if you want to forge a stronger emotional bond between the two of you. Don’t keep secrets from him. He needs and wants to know that your life is an open book to him. If he feels that you’re doing anything behind his back it will make him feel disconnected from you. That’s why it’s a great idea to regularly talk about your life in terms of your work and friends. If he knows everything there is to know about you he’ll truly feel that you are his equal partner and there will be nothing holding back from falling hopelessly in love with you.

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4 Common Signs He’s Not Into You

We all want to find Mr. Right, and considering that this blog is all about marriage and getting to a point where you can find yourself in such said relationship, we also should take a look at some tell-all signs that he isn’t interested in you. This is because our hearts will tell us one thing, but some times our better judgment evades us. These 4 things to look for should help you put perspective on this.

1. Public Affection Is Non-Existent

Well all love PDA, and if a guy really is proud to be with you then this shouldn’t be a problem. Now, not all men are comfortable with public display of affection, so if you are and he’s not reciprocating — well maybe you need to find someone who matches you on this level.

But, if you know in your heart that normally he is this type of guy, and suddenly there is no presence of affection in public, it could be a bad thing.

2. Conversational Withdrawal

Did you start out talking on the phone a lot, but now find yourself being conditioned to just texting? You can’t jump to conclusions, because if he’s been saying that he’s busy, then perhaps he is.

But if this has been going on for a while, and especially if the text messaging has been getting more infrequent, then this could also be a sign that he has lost or is starting to lose interest.

3. Have You Met The People He Loves?

Has he introduced you to his family or friends yet? For a man, this is a big deal. If a guy brings you home to meet mom especially, he doesn’t want mother to always see him with a different girl and get the wrong impression of him. This means that if you are really special then he will have no problem introducing you to the people that he might feel inner judgment from.

But, if you’ve been dating for a while and still no go on this one, then this can also be a major sign that he isn’t interested.

4.Does He Really Know Who You Are?

Even though men do have a hard time recalling as many details as most women, he should be able to pull out some information about you. Does he understand what you long for? can he recall some basic names of your loved ones? does he ever ask you questions regarding yourself?

If he’s really interested then this should not be a problem, but if you are starting to get the impression that your date nights are just a “get-together”, then you might want to look elsewhere for a new partner.

But hold your head up high. These signs are not a direct nail in the coffin of your dreams of commitment.

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How to Make a Guy Fall in Love With You! How To Attract Men

Do you want to know how to make a guy fall in love with you? Are you tired of being single and want the right man with whom you can have a fulfilling relationship? If so, I strongly urge you to read every word of this page with the utmost attention. Discover how to attract men? You are about to discover the sure shot secrets to make a guy feel massive amounts of attraction for you and fall in love with yourself – This is the first step to do. You have to love yourself before you can find a man who loves you. When you begin to love yourself and treat yourself with the best things, you will find the best people being drawn towards you. Don’t look for external love. Love has to be on the inside before it can show up on the outside. Admire yourself and take good care of yourself. Pamper yourself.Smile and be approachable – You must smile all the time. No man will be attracted to a woman who looks frustrated, angry or sad. The happy face makes you approachable. Keep smiling all the time and keep telling yourself the best things. Think optimistic. A smile breaks all tension and makes it easy for a man to approach. If you find a man whom you like, tell him Hi! with a smile. This will break the approach anxiety he has and he will approach you with confidence.Listen to him – This is extremely important. All men love a woman who’s good at listening. Don’t keep talking. If you want to be his sweet girlfriend, you have to be a good listener. There are lots of women who keep bitching and complaining about things to man and men get tired of listening. Don’t let that happen to your man. Be a good listener and listen to the stories he tells. It will make him attracted to you more.Appreciate Him – For almost every man, appreciation is a drug. They all crave appreciation from a woman as this makes them more masculine. So appreciate him for the little things he does. The more you appreciate him, the more he will want to feel appreciated. So he will invest more energy into the relationship to impress you. The more energy he invests, the more in love he falls with you. Appreciate him and at the same time don’t appear fake. You must make him earn it.

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How Can You Tell If You Have Found Your Soulmate The Man You’re Meant For

“How can you tell if you have found your soulmate?”

You can go and look around some of the BIGGEST dating and relationship forums, and you’ll surely realize that this is one of the most asked and discussed question.

And rightly so!

You sure don’t want to spend a relationship with someone who’s NOT meant for you. In my book, doing so means you’re setting yourself for a stinging and heartbreaking separation.

Not to mention you’re not getting any younger and you don’t want to waste time with a relationship that will fail since the man you’re with isn’t your soulmate.

I’m sure you’re now seeing how important t is to know how can you tell if you have found your soulmate.

Let me give you a helping hand on that department. Right here, you’ll see 2 counter-intuitive BUT highly effective tips that will enlighten you and show you if the man you’re with is someone you want to spend the rest of your life with.

BUT more importantly, be strong and resolute whatever these tips reveal to you…whether it tells you that the man you’re with is the right one or you’re better off without him.

How Can You Tell If You Have Found Your Soulmate Tip 1: The man who’s truly meant for you will NEVER EVER disrespect you or make fun of you in front of other people.

He’ll never say rude things about you himself AND he would stand up for you whenever somebody makes fun out of you. A man who’s truly in love with you and your soulmate will be more than willing to do that.

Being respectful also extends to the people you hold dear to your heart. He’ll NOT call your best friend or sister names that are degrading.

How Can You Tell If You Have Found Your Soulmate Tip 2: Closely observe the way he treats his mother.

Is he too attached to his mother…a so-called ‘mama’s boy’? That means you’ll have to put up with his mother as long as you’re in a relationship with him.

Does he ridicule his mother? Is he rued to her? Trust me, he may be nice to you now BUT he’ll treat you the same way in the long run.

Be very careful as well if he idolizes his mom. He will constantly compare you to her and there’s no way you could win that comparison.

You want a man who has the right mix of someone who respects his mom, looks after her, BUT doesn’t kiss her feet to worship her.

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Now listen carefully! What you are about to discover something most women will never know when it comes to how to attract a man that you’ve always wanted, what the secret to a man staying committed for the long-run is, and how to get your relationship back on track. This is one thing which is an absolute must know for every woman out there.

You are about to discover an ultimate “secret weapon ” which will make a man FEEL ATTRACTED and MORE INTERESTED in you for the the long term.. Even If You Are Bald, Fat Or Ugly!…..Trust don’t want to miss this one.

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He Fell Out of Love With Me! Proven Tips to Win Back Your Ex Boyfriend

“He fell out of love with me!” You said it even though you can’t believe it’s actually happened to you. You loved the man more than anything and one day he just decided that he’d had enough of you. Perhaps he was compassionate when he told you and he said he may not be in love with you anymore but he still loved you. Maybe he took a quicker approach and just dumped you on the spot. Either way it hurts the same. The knowledge that the man you adore is done loving you is difficult to absorb. You’re not done with him yet though. Your heart still feels such a strong attachment to him and you want him back more than anything. You can make that happen but it’s all about changing your attitude and learning the steps that you have to take starting today.

Men fall out of love with their girlfriends for a whole assortment of reasons. It may be a by-product of being bored with her. Perhaps it’s more about wanting something that he feels is more romantic or shows more promise. Your man might have felt as though you were rejecting him by putting everything above him on your priority list. Try and identify, if possible, what changed for him and when it happened. If you can pinpoint this, you’ll have a starting point to work with.

Take this insight and combine it with what you know he finds most irresistible in a woman. You’re going to make yourself into the perfect woman for him. This is really the best way to spend your time in the weeks following the break up. If you focus on improving your faults and working on the things you believe made him fall out of love, you’ll be able to stand before him a new woman.

Make a list of what you love about yourself and what you want to improve on. Maybe you wish you had more patience, or you’ve been unhappy with your job or appearance. Do whatever you can to come through this a more fulfilled and emotionally strong woman. That alone will knock his socks off when you do get in touch with him.

Your inner strength, and your ability to draw on that, is essential if you hope to get your ex boyfriend back. Presenting yourself to him as an emotional mess is just going to push him farther and farther away. You need to show him that you’re mature and able to handle even the most difficult of situations. Men don’t want to be attached to someone who falls apart each time something challenging occurs. So stay focused, happy and moving forward.