What Do Men Really Want (from Women)?
Women have been trying to answer this question for such a long time, and shelves of self-help books try to resolve the differences between men and women by considering we're from different planets. Often women ask the question "What do men want?" to their women friends and sometimes they ask their guy friends. If women would approach men with a few simple, effective guidelines, they'll be much more likely to get exactly what they want from men. Let your man know you care about what he's saying, show him your self-confidence, be a little bit mysterious, and don't overreact and create over dramatic situations. So, this article will look at that so much used question, what is really that men want from women, and are men and women really from separate planets like many of you out there think.
A man won't opet to you unless he knows you care. Chances are you always listen to him, but are you always hear him? How many times have you had something else on your mind as he is talking to you? Of course it happens, but don't let him notice that. A man can sense when you really want to hear what he has to say, true listening is the best way to get him talking true to you. And remember, be confident, that's the half of doing things right.
Display enormous self-confidence. No one can think you are fabulous unless you do. It always starts with you. When you know your own worth, it shows. You know that you would be an awesome girlfriend, and you know that you could make a guy really happy. He like your confidence and he feels safer around you, and that safe atmosphere in a relationship is what he needs. And a little bit of mystery is always welcome, so give it to him.
Guys worry about the emotional neediness of women, so keep your feelings to yourself, but don't be too exacting. Always keep a small percentage to yourself (about 10%), and that's the little, sweet mystery you need. It will help you to improve your influence to each other. And at the same time to save a small peaces of your emotions hidden where only you can reach for them.
You also need not to be overreactive. When he did something wrong, don't immediately attack him, maybe it wasn't his fault. Don't be all dramatic and get distant from him, it won't help you at all. There are only so many long talks a guy is willing to have. So do it, talk to him and find your solution together.
For most men, fulfillment comes through success and accomplishment rather than sharing and relating. It is the ability to be self sufficient and competent that is most fulfilling to a man. A man, often takes pride in doing things all by himself. He is motivated when he feels trusted and respected. Trust your man to energize him. He'll give his best performance when he feels loved. I wish you all luck to find what's best in your man, but there always will be that little question which hides so much, "what do men want?".