Why would I write about what men want in a one night stand? So that women can get an idea of what a guy who just wants in their pants looks like – and avoid him.
Many women have entered a one night stand thinking that a relationship was going to come out of it. What a shocker it is when that one night stand only results in tears and frustration!
What Men Look For in a One Night Stand
So when guys are out on the prowl for a one night stand what do they really look for in a girl for their one night of meaningless action?
They are looking for a woman who appeals to them sexually. Obviously. But guys differ in their taste of what they find sexually appealing.
Your clothes may be what sets them off onto the “I gotta have this girl tonight!” mode. If you are in a short skirt and low-cut top then many guys are going to view you as a sex symbol more than a potential relationship girl. It’s just the way it is!
How can you tell he’s interested in your body and not your brain? If a guy approaches you looking at your body and not your eyes then you know they are probably looking for something less than a relationship, and a one night stand is a big possibility in your future. Avoid this guy.
Of course you just may have a rocking body and guys are going to notice that no matter what you wear. But the same rule applies. Guys who can’t look you in the eye don’t want to get to know you as a person.
One Too Many Drinks in You
Most guys know that they are not going to convince a girl to jump into bed with them and then face the dreaded ditch in the morning. They know that women are smarter than that. So they look for women who have lost their reasoning skills with alcohol or drugs. Then they work their magic that seems appealing to a drunk a girl, and eventually land the one night stand.
If you are going out and you plan to drink then make sure you bring a friend who has your back. A voice of reason will be needed if some jerk starts to woo you with his charm. She or he should be able to convince you of stupid decisions and future consequences.
This doesn’t mean that they only look for a girl with continuous low self-confidence. They also look for a girl who has just suffered from some hurtful event like a breakup, job loss, or anything else that has sent them into a downward spiral.
Guys who try to get laid when they know you are not doing well are not concerned about making you feel better; they just want to take advantage of your vulnerable state. It’s no wonder that these type of guys can have sex with you and dump you without feeling bad.
If you are heading out for a night of cheering up with your friends then it’s best to avoid guys altogether. You are in a vulnerable state of mind and the guys that are looking for a one night stand will recognize that very quickly. Focus on cheering yourself up first and then head out another night to look for a guy.