5 Things You Must Do or Not Do on The First Night of Sex

You have gone on several dates with your man and you have kept it PG-13 up until now, but tonight is the big night. The following is a list of the top 5 things you must do (or not do) to ensure your man keeps coming back for more and the relationship continues:

1. Perform Well, But Keep It Freaky and Kink Free Men like aggressive sexual women, but they need to grow into it during the course of the relationship. Swinging from the chandeliers and over-the-top dirty talk should be avoided, at least for now. Telling him how good it feels is ok, but dirty talk should be avoided. Wait to break out the toys and avoid the stinky pinky. Good girls just don’t do that on the first night. If you do anything too risque, he will enjoy himself for sure, but he will also assume that this is your modus operandi and ditch you in due course.

2. Never Laugh At His Manhood Men are most insecure about two things: thinning hair and the size of their johnson. The truth is most men are nervous the first time they are about to get naked because despite how large they may be, they always assume they never measure up. Perhaps you will get lucky and your man is packing heat, but statistics suggest that the average member is slightly north of 5 inches. If you have been sexually inactive for several months and have satisfied yourself with porn, keep in mind that male porn stars average 8-9 inches and can occasionally come in at 11 or 12 inches. You most likely will need to adjust your expectations to the real world. Whatever size pistol he reveals, keep your comments positive. If ever there was a time to lie or hyperbolize, now is it. Never call it cute and who knows, some men are growers, not showers, so your best bet is to wrap your lips around his stick and find out.

3. Never Stink (from any orifice): There is no bigger turn off than a smelly girl and I am not just talking about your breath. It certainly goes without saying that your pre-sex meal not contain any items that cause bad breath. Tonight is not the night to experiment either, new foods can turn your stomach into a war zone. A girl with gas on the first night will, at best, be a one-night stand. Wait 6 months into the relationship before you indulge in garlic and onion laced Mexican or heavily-spiced Indian cuisine. Most importantly, make sure your nether region is as groomed and odorless as it can possibly be. You have no idea if your man likes to perform oral sex, and if you are lucky enough to have found one, don’t disappoint him with a hairy smelly mess. That isn’t nice and it certainly won’t incentivize him to repeat the act should the relationship continue. Do not go completely bald either (some men are not into that), a strip or neatly groomed pubic patch is recommended.

4. Condom Policy Always carry no less than 4 condoms with you (and it never hurts to have more, in case he is a stallion). Perhaps the “condom policy” should have been listed first, but what a bummer way to start an article. Most heterosexual men are ill-prepared for most things, including sex. It is not uncommon for men to get a bit inebriated prior to a sexual encounter and good judgment seems to diminish with each drink. Even good intelligent men will sometimes forego a condom when under the influence. Make sure you are never on the receiving end of this mistake. So he doesn’t think you are a “dirty slut” when you pull out a condom, let him know throughout the night (before you actually pull it out) that you have been thinking about this night for quite some time and have prepared for everything.

5. Location, Location, Location If you do not do proper due diligence on your man’s housing situation, you can find yourself in a very embarrassing situation the morning after. Believe it or not, some men even at the ripe old age of 30 have mommies that come by the house uninvited (and often on weekends when you are likely to be having your romantic evening). Even if his mother knows about you, you don’t want to be spotted after a night of doing the dirty. After all, this woman may turn out to be your mother-in-law. Other potential pitfalls include roommates you may not be aware of who may walk into your man’s bedroom without knocking unaware of your presence. Perhaps your pad makes the most sense, but, if not, do your homework on his living situation.

How to Be Irresistible To Your Husband

When you have just been married, your husband will be irresistible and treat you with great love and tenderness. Unfortunately, this kind of treatment does not usually last as long as you would like. After some time, you may wish that your husband kept handling you in the same way. It can hurt you greatly when you discover that he is not the same affectionate husband he used to be. To make matters worse, you may assume that you will be able to recapture his interest by making simple adjustments such as changing the way you dress or even lose a few pounds. Unfortunately, this does not usually work.

How to attract husband – more than physical attraction Although there are a number of things you need to do in order to attract your husband’s interest in you, they hardly have anything to do with your physical appearance. This does not mean that physical attraction will no longer be important after you have stayed together for a while. However, there are many other important factors beside this. When you want to attract your husband’s interest in you, you should seriously consider your actions more than your appearance. Nevertheless, you should not neglect your appearance. When you begin to leave your hair unkempt or you don’t seem to think much of what you wear, your husband will start wondering what is going on with you. He may even interpret it that you are not interested in him any more. Alternatively, he may see it as a way in which you do not value yourself, which will change his own perception of you. How to attract husband – avoid getting irritable One of the things that can make your husband lose interest in you is when he keeps finding you in a foul mood.

If there are things that give you stress, you should find a way of solving them, as you may unconsciously take them out on your husband. How to attract husband – develop your personality If you lack a strong personality, your husband’s interest will begin to wane. You need to have a strong personality and have a more positive attitude. It is nearly impossible to attract someone else when you have a negative attitude. You should be happy first of all in order to renew your husband’s interest in you. These are just some of the things you can do in order to bring back the sparkle in your marriage. It does not really matter whether your husband has lost so much interest that he is already contemplating a divorce.

Make Your Ex Boyfriend Realize How Much He Still Loves You

You initially thought is to get your ex boyfriend back when a breakup occurs. This is only normal since you were afraid you might have lost him for good. Making no move at all is the best move you can take to win him back very fast. As much as possible put as much distance between the two of you. I realise this contradict all of your instincts and will be difficult to really do this. It’s even more difficult if there were so much heated words exchanged. Your intentions will be to apologize and tell him you are sorry about what you said, however he is not going to listen to you. Leave him alone for now and save yourself a lot more heart break. To make your ex boyfriend realize how much he still loves you, you need to give him space and time. As much as possible you need to stop thinking about your ex boyfriend. Get in touch with relatives and friends you’ve abandoned at the time of the relationship. They’ll be excited to see you and help you with all the support you need. Make yourself look good by treating yourself to a makeover at a good salon and buying new clothes. Be committed to yourself and you’ll feel yourself getting back together again. And soon, all things will seem possible and your hopes on winning your ex boyfriend back will be renewed. Give your ex boyfriend space for a few weeks to experience his life without you and that will make him realize what he gave up.

Sooner than you expect, he’ll start missing you and start reminiscing of all of the good times you both shared. At this time his feeling will take a hit. He will start thinking that you might find someone else and he could lose you for good. When he starts think this way, it will make him realize how much he still loves you. He might want to test the water by sending you an email. He will determine if you are still interested in him by how soon you reply. Don’t make the mistake of jumping right on it and reply right away, he will feel relax and believe he has nothing to worry about. Therefore don’t answer it. This is not ignoring him. A lot of people don’t check their email regularly. What he would do next is to call.

Don’t pick the call, allow him call a few times and leave a message. Then call him back and act as if you are suprise to hear from him. His suggestion might be you meet for a conversation. Do not turn him down but agree with him, however let him know you have so much things going at the moment and you will have to call him some other time. This lets him know that he is not your top priority any longer and he’ll have to wait his turn. When you do this you’re in charge and it will make him want to get you back anxiously.