What Men Want in a One Night Stand

Why would I write about what men want in a one night stand? So that women can get an idea of what a guy who just wants in their pants looks like – and avoid him. Many women have entered a one night stand thinking that a relationship was going to come out of it. What a shocker it is when that one night stand only results in tears and frustration! What Men Look For in a One Night Stand So when guys are out on the prowl for a one night stand what do they really look for in a girl for their one night of meaningless action? Sex Appeal They are looking for a woman who appeals to them sexually. Obviously. But guys differ in their taste of what they find sexually appealing. Your clothes may be what sets them off onto the “I gotta have this girl tonight!” mode. If you are in a short skirt and low-cut top then many guys are going to view you as a sex symbol more than a potential relationship girl. It’s just the way it is! How can you tell he’s interested in your body and not your brain? If a guy approaches you looking at your body and not your eyes then you know they are probably looking for something less than a relationship, and a one night stand is a big possibility in your future.

Avoid this guy. Of course you just may have a rocking body and guys are going to notice that no matter what you wear. But the same rule applies. Guys who can’t look you in the eye don’t want to get to know you as a person. One Too Many Drinks in You Most guys know that they are not going to convince a girl to jump into bed with them and then face the dreaded ditch in the morning. They know that women are smarter than that. So they look for women who have lost their reasoning skills with alcohol or drugs. Then they work their magic that seems appealing to a drunk a girl, and eventually land the one night stand. If you are going out and you plan to drink then make sure you bring a friend who has your back. A voice of reason will be needed if some jerk starts to woo you with his charm. She or he should be able to convince you of stupid decisions and future consequences. Low Self-Confidence This doesn’t mean that they only look for a girl with continuous low self-confidence. They also look for a girl who has just suffered from some hurtful event like a breakup, job loss, or anything else that has sent them into a downward spiral.

Guys who try to get laid when they know you are not doing well are not concerned about making you feel better; they just want to take advantage of your vulnerable state. It’s no wonder that these type of guys can have sex with you and dump you without feeling bad. If you are heading out for a night of cheering up with your friends then it’s best to avoid guys altogether. You are in a vulnerable state of mind and the guys that are looking for a one night stand will recognize that very quickly. Focus on cheering yourself up first and then head out another night to look for a guy.

Signs He Will Never Propose! How to Know if Your Guy is Marriage Material

You feel that you’ve been waiting forever for your guy to pop the question. If you two have been dating for some time it’s only natural that you’d eventually expect an engagement ring and the title of his wife. How long is too long to wait though? If you’ve gone from expecting a wedding in your future to wondering whether or not it will ever happen, you’ve reached a point where you need to look at your relationship more honestly. There are some signs he will never propose that will help you clearly see whether or not he’s even got marriage on his mind. One of the signs he will never propose is he dislikes going to anyone’s wedding. If someone has no tolerance for something in particular, they want to distance themselves from that thing. In your boyfriend’s case if he gets uncomfortable with the idea of his own wedding, he won’t want to be at anyone else’s either.

He knows that it will bring up questions from not only you but other people as well. If he bows out each and every time you two are invited to friends’ or family members’ nuptials, that’s not promising for you. You can also tell if he’s shying away from the idea of walking down the aisle if he never refers to you as being part of his future plans. We all talk about the future from time-to-time and in the case of couples in a committed relationship, they almost always use the terms, “we” and “us.” If your boyfriend talks solely about his own plans for what he’ll be doing a year or five years from now, you’re definitely not part of the life picture he’s painted for himself in his mind. There’s also a very obvious clue in how he introduces you to other people.

If he only ever refers to you as his friend or his girlfriend and never as the woman he loves or his future wife, you’re stuck in a role that you probably don’t want to play anymore. It’s very emotionally difficult to still just be his girlfriend in everyone’s eyes when you two have been together for years. It demeans your connection and you. Understanding the signs he will never propose can help you clearly see where your relationship stands. It’s not easy to admit that you’re involved with a man who has no interest in marriage but it’s much better than hiding your head in the sand believing a proposal is just around the corner.